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Sharon Emery
Aug 18, 20232 min read
Your mission: Belong to a place
Believe it or not, belongingness is a word. Moreover, it's a thing right now. Alienation – the antithesis of belonging – is blamed for...
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Sharon Emery
Aug 1, 20232 min read
Watching for the light
I can't tell you how many summers I've spent rereading Virginia Woolf's To the Lighthouse.
Let's just say many.
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Sharon Emery
Jul 19, 20232 min read
My famous washing machine
This is not your typical appliance resurrection: I don't use the words “desperate” and “beloved” casually when I say we are currently...
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Sharon Emery
Jul 5, 20232 min read
Who wants to act their age?
Maybe you've had this experience: You wake up groggy one morning, and while trying to maneuver a piece of bread into the toaster, you...
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Sharon Emery
Jun 10, 20232 min read
The magic of being there
Have you noticed? We're absolutely captivated by being in proximity to something we love. Even if we can barely see it, being in its...
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Sharon Emery
May 21, 20232 min read
The world could use some applause
I get the biggest kick out of clapping for someone – applauding what they've done while softly chanting, “You're good, you're really...
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Sharon Emery
Apr 29, 20232 min read
Eating our good intentions
While mulling everything my doctor wants me to do – exercise, eat right, get enough vitamins/ minerals, etc. – I decided to make a deal...
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Sharon Emery
Feb 27, 20232 min read
Our own truths
As soon as I read it, I knew Joan Didion's searing insight from her book “The White Album” was the perfect epigraph for mine: “We tell...
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Sharon Emery
Feb 10, 20232 min read
Resisting the comfort of the known
One of the things that terrified me as I struggled to write my memoir was the realization that I had to give over my storytelling powers...
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Sharon Emery
Jan 27, 20232 min read
The camera doesn't lie
I must admit, I don't like most photos of myself. I'll spare you the specifics, but let me just say that I really work at it, and I'm...
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Sharon Emery
Jan 12, 20232 min read
Remembering who you are
When I was 15, I holed up with my best friend Suzie, from across the street, to dream about what it would be like when we were finally...
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Sharon Emery
Dec 28, 20222 min read
What should stay and what should go
Among New Year's resolutions, are there any more popular than getting rid of excess pounds and getting rid of excess stuff? No,...
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Sharon Emery
Nov 30, 20222 min read
Letting Go
It's big, badly faded, and purple. But I love it. And I have loved it – for nearly 23 years. Not only that, it has a curved frame,...
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Sharon Emery
Nov 5, 20222 min read
The power we hold
Skin may be the largest organ of the human body, but really, aside from wanting it to look youthful until the day we die, we don't much...
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Sharon Emery
Oct 21, 20222 min read
Why don't they call THAT disability??
Having a disability gives you a valuable perspective on the world. It can make you more empathetic, more accepting, more all-around...
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Sharon Emery
Oct 6, 20222 min read
Memory + Music = Magic
A crescendo of nostalgia poured down after my favorite band announced they'd be celebrating the tenth anniversary of their first album...
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Sharon Emery
Sep 22, 20222 min read
Navigating transitions
The march into fall has more power to signal a transition than any other change in the seasons. The cooler nights of late August and...
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Sharon Emery
Sep 7, 20222 min read
Celebrating being mortal
My Mortality Club met recently after a three-year hiatus. The break in what was supposed to be our annual gathering was created by the...
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Sharon Emery
Aug 18, 20221 min read
The importance of every star in the family firmament
Ask me what was most amazing about son Ben’s recent Lord Huron show before a sold-out crowd (including multitudes of family and friends)...
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Sharon Emery
Aug 3, 20222 min read
Why home feels so good
Maybe you've been part of a similar conversation: “When are you coming home?” “Ma, I am home. I live in (fill in the blank, but let's say...
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